I’m Being Abused

There are many groups that can help you. There are also laws to protect victims from being abused. First, we list some agencies and groups that can help you. Then we explain the laws that protect victims and how you can use the laws to protect yourself.

Domestic Violence Groups

There are sixteen domestic violence groups in Vermont. The Vermont Network Against Domestic and Sexual Violence is a statewide group that works for abuse victims. Find your local domestic violence group here.

Domestic violence groups can help you make a safety plan and give you emotional support. Most programs have advocates who can guide you through the Relief from Abuse process and offer emotional support at court. They may be able to give you financial help so you can stay in a motel, pay for day care, pay for transportation, or even pay a security deposit for housing. Each domestic violence group is different. Contact your local group to find out how they can help you.

Police / Law Enforcement

Nobody has the right to abuse you. You can call the police if someone physically hurts you or tries to hurt you. You don’t have to call the police right when the person hurts you, but it’s best to call as soon as you can. You can call 911 or call your local police station.

Some abuse is a crime. The state may prosecute your abuser in criminal court.

Did someone scare you by what they said or did to you? You can report this to the police. The police may not be able to do anything, but it can be good to tell the police now in case the problem gets worse later.

Medical Care

If you want, get medical care as soon as possible for any injury. Bring copies of your medical records to the court for your final hearing if you ask for a Relief from Abuse Order. Before giving the records to the court, make sure that your Social Security Number is completely crossed out.

Legal Clinics

You can contact us for help. Fill out our form and we will call you back. You can also call us at 1-800-889-2047. If your abuser has access to your computer, call us instead of using the online form. Your information will be sent to Legal Services Vermont, which screens requests for help for both Vermont Legal Aid and Legal Services Vermont. 

Do you live in the Burlington area? There is a free legal clinic at Legal Services Vermont in Burlington, Vt., most Saturdays from 10 a.m. to noon. You can get free legal help there. Call us at 1-800-889-2047 to check on the schedule.

You can view a list of other legal clinics and projects around Vermont on the Vermont Bar Association website. See the link at the bottom of this VBA web page.

Adult Protective Services

Are you a senior citizen? Do you have a disability? Are you being abused? Vermont has an agency called Adult Protective Services. It’s their job to protect vulnerable adults from abuse. You may qualify for help from them. They can explain your options and may investigate your abuse.

Here is a brief description of Vermont laws that protect victims from abuse.

Criminal: Some abuse is a crime. If someone is physically harming you, you can call the police for help. The state may prosecute your abuser in criminal court.

Civil / non-criminal: A lot of abuse isn’t criminal. Civil (non-criminal) laws may protect you from abuse. For example, you may qualify for a court order to protect you from more abuse. The court order is called a Relief from Abuse Order. People sometimes call it an RFA, an abuse prevention order or a restraining order.

Is your abuser abusing your children? The Relief from Abuse Order can also protect your children.

Each law to protect victims has a different legal rule or “standard” for what that law counts as “abuse.” You or the State of Vermont will have to show that what your abuser did counts as “abuse” under a particular law.

Is the state prosecuting your abuser under the criminal law?

The state will have to show that what your abuser did to you was criminal. The state will initiate the case and try to prove it.

Do you want to get a civil order to protect yourself?

To get a Relief from Abuse Order, check our page on Asking for a Relief from Abuse Order. You can start the process yourself. A domestic violence group may also be able to help you.

Follow this link to our Asking for a Relief from Abuse Order page to learn the steps you need to take get a Relief from Abuse Order.

If you are a teen or a minor who is being abused, see our web page about Protection for Minors. You can also call the statewide domestic or sexual violence hotline at 1-800-228-7395.